Friday, June 11, 2010

Do ordinary things in an extraordinary way…...
“If you wait to do everything until you're sure it's right, you'll probably never do much of anything.”
If you hear that someone is speaking ill of you, instead of trying to defend yourself you should say: "He obviously does not know me very well, since there are so many other faults he could have mentioned".......
Love is moral even without legal marriage, but marriage is immoral without love.....
The difficulty with marriage is that we fall in love with a personality, but must live with a character.......

"Success in marriage is much more than finding the right person; it is a matter of being the right person"


Pantai...apa yg boleh dikaitkan dengai pantai ni adalah ktenangan...Dalam byk2 tmpat prlancongan,sye lbh suka memilih destinasi yg mmiliki pantai...especially pantai yg brsih lar...walaupun sbnarnya sye ni xske mandi laut,sungai but walaupun dpat dgar bunyi ombak,sedut udara di tepi pantai,ambil gmbar pmndgan pun dh ckup..mmg bley relese tnsion lar...smetime ade yg brpndapat bhwa laut or pantai ni bley dikaitkan dgan romantik..yelar..ade gak pasangan2 yg bru brkhwin mmilih pantai sbgai dstinasi brbulan madu mreka..sesiapa yg xckup budget utk prgi ke bali 2,port dickson pun ok gak...huhu

Sungguh indah pemandangan ni..Sungguh jelas menunjukkan kekuasaan Allah..Dia lah yg Maha Pencipta..tambahan pula diambil sewktu mthri nk trbenam..bukan semua brpeluang mlihat keindahannya..yelar sesiapa yg tinggal brhampiran dgan laut 2,sure lar tiap2 hari brpluang tuk mlihatnya...so sesipa yg tinggal di bandar 2,ambillar sedikit masa brehat ke destinasi sperti ini..sungguh berbaloi^_^

Nine steps towards success....

1)Dream big dreams…

2)Be a goal setter first…
The key here is; you are either the cause of your problems or you can
become the solution...

3)Be a goal achiever…
The key is,remember God only gives us one day at a time to live…

4)Purpose...
The key here is;Are you living out your life’s purpose…

5) Meaning…
The ke to remember here is;Meaning come from the quality of service
That you render to other people…

6)The power of Focus…
Anything is possible to the willing mind…



7)Discipline…
*Doing what others do not like to do.
* Going the extra mile and fighting and winning the lonely battle .
This is what it takes to turn dreams into reality.

8)Be teachable…
Form a habit of a “CAN I” which stands for constant and never ending learning as fun and a vital part of your growth process.

9)Fear of failure…
The key is; Keep on the sunny side of life.

Saturday, March 6, 2010

"Success in marriage is much more than finding the right person; it is a matter of being the right person"

APAKAH CINTA HANYA MILIK ORANG CANTIK ATAU TAMPAN??
Ibarat cinta itu air suci, maka manusia adalah wadah yang menampung air tersebut, sejauh mana kebersihan wadah itu, maka menentukan kebersihan dan kesucian air tersebut. Semakin tinggi kesucian, semakin dekat kepada Cinta Sejati. Apabila manusia mencapai kesucian dirinya, maka wujudnya terhapus Hilang dalam Cinta itu sendiri, wujudnya menyatu dalam Cinta, sehingga Cinta adalah Dirinya, dan Dirinya adalah Cinta.. Maka..Alam semesta ini hadir untuk mengabadikan Cinta-Nya kepada “Diri-Nya Sendiri”, sebab tidak ada yang mampu mencapai Cinta Sejati, selain Diri-Nya sendiri.

Cinta menjadi lambang keagungan hati dan kemuliaan jiwa manusia. Tanpa Cinta, Tuhan takkan menciptakan dan melahirkan makhluk, apalagi manusia. Dalam cinta-Nya itu, atas nama Tuhan Yang Mahamengasihani dan Maha Menyayangi, semua wujud hadir memuji dan memuja Sang Maha Cinta. Takkan habis kalimat untuk menggambarkan cinta, takkan habis tinta menulis keluasan hati…cinta begitu tinggi dan menjadi rahasia keagungan-Nya.

Manusia yang mendambakan cinta menjadi hambar dan tak bernilai bila berhadapan dengan Cinta. Walau cinta sangat dirindu dan diharap, kadang hanya tangis dan derita yang memerangkap, walau hati yang dicari, kadang hanya sakit yang terasa tak terperi. Cinta, menjadi lambang keindahan sekaligus lambang derita manusia. Ada yang berpuluh tahun menunggu seseorang datang menghiburnya dalam kerinduan cinta, tetapi kekecewaan yang menghampiri, tangis dan isak meliputi. Lukisan indah berubah menjadi kelopak yang layu, kemudian kerontang, berguguran ke bumi. Sungguh mengenaskan nasib sang pemburu cinta…sungguh menyedihkan sang pemburu cinta sejati.

Jika sedikit membongkar apa yang dinamakan cinta itu, maka kita akan sedikit memahami kelemahan dan kerendahan manusia dibandingkan dengan Cinta itu sendiri.

Cinta merupakan suatu hal atau kondisi yang menggambarkan suatu keindahan dan kebahagiaan. Dalam cinta, apapun yang terlihat, terdengar, terasa indah dan menyenangkan tanpa henti. Dengan cinta, tiada hari tanpa senyum dan gembira, apa yang ada di sekitarnya, semuanya indah dan menghibur.

Tetapi, sadarkah kita, milik siapakah Cinta itu? Milik siapakah Cinta Sejati itu? Apakah manusia memiliki hak untuk mendapatkan cinta ataupun cinta sejati?
Maka, sadarlah kita bahwa Cinta Sejati itu bukan milik kita, bukan milik manusia biasa seperti kita. Hanya cinta dari Ilahi adalah cinta yg sejati..Allahuakhbar....

Saturday, January 2, 2010

Rose Meaning and Symbolism....




Roses are the traditional gift given on Valentines Day, but they're well-received any time of year. The color and type of rose does carry a meaning, though. Be aware of what you're giving: the color of a rose can have a very different meaning from what you intend. If you're giving roses as a gift, follow this guide to make sure you send the message you want to send:

o Red Roses: Red roses say, "I love you." Red roses are the ultimate symbol of romantic love and enduring passion. Florists can't keep up with the Valentines Day demand for red roses, which makes them especially expensive in February...Wow...I love it....owh my love...^_^

o Pale Pink Roses: Pale pink roses imply grace, gentleness, and joy.

o Light Pink Roses: Light pink roses express a sense of fun, happiness, and whimsy.

o Deep Pink Roses: Deep pink roses say, "Thank you."

o Lilac Roses: Lilac roses indicate the sender has fallen in love at first sight with the recipient and is enchanted. (To make sure the recipient doesn't miss the message, an appropriate card might also be a good idea. The meaning of lilac roses isn't as widely-known as the meaning of red roses, for instance.)

o White Roses: Pure white roses symbolize truth and innocence. They also send other messages like, "I miss you," and "You're heavenly" (or both, if your loved one is away.)

o Coral Roses: Coral roses express one thing through their passionate color: Desire.

o Peach Roses: Peach roses signify appreciation, gratitude, modesty, and also can convey sympathy.

o Orange Roses: Orange roses communicate enthusiasm, desire, and fascination on the part of the sender.

o Yellow Roses: Yellow roses indicate friendship and freedom ― so don't send them if your intentions are romantic and long-lasting. Yellow roses are also appropriate for sending congratulations to newlyweds, graduates, and new mothers.