You never know what you have until you lose it, and once you lose it, you can never get it back.

This is for the broken hearted. I know how you feel. Empty, betrayed, and no happiness whatsoever. You don't want to laugh, because you know it's not going to help, but you don't want to cry, because it will just make you feel worse. You feel like your heart is falling apart, but not only that, but you know soon your life is going to feel like it's falling apart too. You don't think it will ever end, and no matter what this person has done to you, it feels impossible to stop loving them. And everyone wonders why if they have hurt you so much, then why do you still love them. That's the confusing part, you don't know why, you just do, and the people who hurt you the most, and normally the ones you love the most. And then, after a few weeks, you finally feel a sense of relief, like you're getting happy again, but you know inside that you're just going into denial. And after a few more weeks, you're back to where you were an empty soul and teary eyes. You thought you got over them, but really, you just stopped showing it. And you can't help but to show it again. It leaves deep scars on your heart that are there forever. And no one understands how you feel, and how deep you are hurt, no matter who they are, because it hasn't happened to them And even if it has, every broken heart is different. They don't know the true pain you feel and carry each and everyday now, so you learn that basically you are alone with all this. And the feeling starts to overwhelm you, and suddenly you just break down, right there, because you know you've had enough, the tears just instantly start flowing, and you're to the point where you don't care who see's. Because you've spent so many nights lying awake in bed, and so many days being haunted by the scars and fear of rejection. And in the midst of all these tears, you know that its not helping any, and it's not going to bring them back, if you ever even had them in the first place. After about a million tears have been cried, you finally pull yourself back together and keep going. Your throat starts to clench and your eyes burn with the tears you are trying to hold back. Everyone says, "It will be okay…” But you know it won't. And that’s the truth, it won’t. And you look back on all of the hurt you had from this, and you realize that people are horrible. You're still hurt, but you've learned to hide it so that everyone thinks you are okay. So now every time you see this person, you know you still love them, and you feel a slight tingle in your heart yearning for them to love you, screaming out, but for some reason they don't hear it. And then you sit back and wonder how one person could have caused all of this...

Love Means Sacrifice, Not Selfishness...

No matter how long you may live, you’ll never stop learning. Every minute of every day brings new opportunities to learn something we’ve never known before. As long as we’re open to receive, God will continue to teach us every day.

I’m still learning, and I know I always will be. What God teaches me every day about love continues to change my life.It’s impossible for people who’ve truly been reduced to love to be selfish. God has taught them how to be totally adaptable and adjustable to others. Selfish people, on the other hand, have hard hearts. It’s very difficult for them to learn anything—especially if it involves self-sacrifice. They expect everyone else to adjust to them and their needs. They simply don’t know how to adjust to others without becoming angry or upset.

Slowly, I became committed to walking in love. I learned to adapt my own needs and desires in order to help meet the needs of others. I learned how to show love in different ways to different people. Not all people need the same thing from us. One of our children, for example, may need more of our personal time than the others. One of our friends may need more encouragement on a regular basis than another.

If I ever get weary of always trying to be available to meet the needs of others, I remind myself of all the years I lived in selfishness and how unhappy I was. Now I’m just making up for lost time! When I think on this, it doesn’t take long for me to adjust my attitude. After all, just telling people “I love you” is not enough. We need to go beyond the words and actually do something to help meet their needs.

Once you’ve been reduced to love, you’ll have no trouble establishing and maintaining good, healthy relationships with others. Your primary goal in life will be to put the wishes of others before your own. You’ll learn that true love is all about sacrifice and selfishness will be a thing of the past...~zielaradzuan

Tika wajah penat memikirkan dunia, maka berwuduklah... Tika tangan ini letih menggapai cita-cita, Maka berdoalah... Tika bahu tidak kuasa memikul amanah, Maka bersujudlah... Ikhlaskan semuanya & dekatilah Allah s.w.t.... Agar tunduk disaat yang lain angkuh... Agar teguh disaat yang lain runtuh... Agar tegar disaat yang lain terlempar.

Do ordinary things in an extraordinary way…...

“If you wait to do everything until you're sure it's right, you'll probably never do much of anything.”

If you hear that someone is speaking ill of you, instead of trying to defend yourself you should say: "He obviously does not know me very well, since there are so many other faults he could have mentioned".......

Love is moral even without legal marriage, but marriage is immoral without love.....

The difficulty with marriage is that we fall in love with a personality, but must live with a character.......

"Success in marriage is much more than finding the right person; it is a matter of being the right person"

Pantai...apa yg boleh dikaitkan dengai pantai ni adalah ktenangan...Dalam byk2 tmpat prlancongan,sye lbh suka memilih destinasi yg mmiliki pantai...especially pantai yg brsih lar...walaupun sbnarnya sye ni xske mandi laut,sungai but walaupun dpat dgar bunyi ombak,sedut udara di tepi pantai,ambil gmbar pmndgan pun dh ckup..mmg bley relese tnsion lar...smetime ade yg brpndapat bhwa laut or pantai ni bley dikaitkan dgan romantik..yelar..ade gak pasangan2 yg bru brkhwin mmilih pantai sbgai dstinasi brbulan madu mreka..sesiapa yg xckup budget utk prgi ke bali 2,port dickson pun ok gak...huhu

Sungguh indah pemandangan ni..Sungguh jelas menunjukkan kekuasaan Allah..Dia lah yg Maha Pencipta..tambahan pula diambil sewktu mthri nk trbenam..bukan semua brpeluang mlihat keindahannya..yelar sesiapa yg tinggal brhampiran dgan laut 2,sure lar tiap2 hari brpluang tuk mlihatnya...so sesipa yg tinggal di bandar 2,ambillar sedikit masa brehat ke destinasi sperti ini..sungguh berbaloi^_^

Nine steps towards success....

1)Dream big dreams…

2)Be a goal setter first…
The key here is; you are either the cause of your problems or you can
become the solution...

3)Be a goal achiever…
The key is,remember God only gives us one day at a time to live…

4)Purpose...
The key here is;Are you living out your life’s purpose…

5) Meaning…
The ke to remember here is;Meaning come from the quality of service
That you render to other people…

6)The power of Focus…
Anything is possible to the willing mind…



7)Discipline…
*Doing what others do not like to do.
* Going the extra mile and fighting and winning the lonely battle .
This is what it takes to turn dreams into reality.

8)Be teachable…
Form a habit of a “CAN I” which stands for constant and never ending learning as fun and a vital part of your growth process.

9)Fear of failure…
The key is; Keep on the sunny side of life.

"Success in marriage is much more than finding the right person; it is a matter of being the right person"

APAKAH CINTA HANYA MILIK ORANG CANTIK ATAU TAMPAN??
Ibarat cinta itu air suci, maka manusia adalah wadah yang menampung air tersebut, sejauh mana kebersihan wadah itu, maka menentukan kebersihan dan kesucian air tersebut. Semakin tinggi kesucian, semakin dekat kepada Cinta Sejati. Apabila manusia mencapai kesucian dirinya, maka wujudnya terhapus Hilang dalam Cinta itu sendiri, wujudnya menyatu dalam Cinta, sehingga Cinta adalah Dirinya, dan Dirinya adalah Cinta.. Maka..Alam semesta ini hadir untuk mengabadikan Cinta-Nya kepada “Diri-Nya Sendiri”, sebab tidak ada yang mampu mencapai Cinta Sejati, selain Diri-Nya sendiri.

Cinta menjadi lambang keagungan hati dan kemuliaan jiwa manusia. Tanpa Cinta, Tuhan takkan menciptakan dan melahirkan makhluk, apalagi manusia. Dalam cinta-Nya itu, atas nama Tuhan Yang Mahamengasihani dan Maha Menyayangi, semua wujud hadir memuji dan memuja Sang Maha Cinta. Takkan habis kalimat untuk menggambarkan cinta, takkan habis tinta menulis keluasan hati…cinta begitu tinggi dan menjadi rahasia keagungan-Nya.

Manusia yang mendambakan cinta menjadi hambar dan tak bernilai bila berhadapan dengan Cinta. Walau cinta sangat dirindu dan diharap, kadang hanya tangis dan derita yang memerangkap, walau hati yang dicari, kadang hanya sakit yang terasa tak terperi. Cinta, menjadi lambang keindahan sekaligus lambang derita manusia. Ada yang berpuluh tahun menunggu seseorang datang menghiburnya dalam kerinduan cinta, tetapi kekecewaan yang menghampiri, tangis dan isak meliputi. Lukisan indah berubah menjadi kelopak yang layu, kemudian kerontang, berguguran ke bumi. Sungguh mengenaskan nasib sang pemburu cinta…sungguh menyedihkan sang pemburu cinta sejati.

Jika sedikit membongkar apa yang dinamakan cinta itu, maka kita akan sedikit memahami kelemahan dan kerendahan manusia dibandingkan dengan Cinta itu sendiri.

Cinta merupakan suatu hal atau kondisi yang menggambarkan suatu keindahan dan kebahagiaan. Dalam cinta, apapun yang terlihat, terdengar, terasa indah dan menyenangkan tanpa henti. Dengan cinta, tiada hari tanpa senyum dan gembira, apa yang ada di sekitarnya, semuanya indah dan menghibur.

Tetapi, sadarkah kita, milik siapakah Cinta itu? Milik siapakah Cinta Sejati itu? Apakah manusia memiliki hak untuk mendapatkan cinta ataupun cinta sejati?
Maka, sadarlah kita bahwa Cinta Sejati itu bukan milik kita, bukan milik manusia biasa seperti kita. Hanya cinta dari Ilahi adalah cinta yg sejati..Allahuakhbar....

Rose Meaning and Symbolism....

Roses are the traditional gift given on Valentines Day, but they're well-received any time of year. The color and type of rose does carry a meaning, though. Be aware of what you're giving: the color of a rose can have a very different meaning from what you intend. If you're giving roses as a gift, follow this guide to make sure you send the message you want to send:

o Red Roses: Red roses say, "I love you." Red roses are the ultimate symbol of romantic love and enduring passion. Florists can't keep up with the Valentines Day demand for red roses, which makes them especially expensive in February...Wow...I love it....owh my love...^_^

o Pale Pink Roses: Pale pink roses imply grace, gentleness, and joy.

o Light Pink Roses: Light pink roses express a sense of fun, happiness, and whimsy.

o Deep Pink Roses: Deep pink roses say, "Thank you."

o Lilac Roses: Lilac roses indicate the sender has fallen in love at first sight with the recipient and is enchanted. (To make sure the recipient doesn't miss the message, an appropriate card might also be a good idea. The meaning of lilac roses isn't as widely-known as the meaning of red roses, for instance.)

o White Roses: Pure white roses symbolize truth and innocence. They also send other messages like, "I miss you," and "You're heavenly" (or both, if your loved one is away.)

o Coral Roses: Coral roses express one thing through their passionate color: Desire.

o Peach Roses: Peach roses signify appreciation, gratitude, modesty, and also can convey sympathy.

o Orange Roses: Orange roses communicate enthusiasm, desire, and fascination on the part of the sender.

o Yellow Roses: Yellow roses indicate friendship and freedom ― so don't send them if your intentions are romantic and long-lasting. Yellow roses are also appropriate for sending congratulations to newlyweds, graduates, and new mothers.

Happy Hari Raya......

The celebration of Eid Al-Fitr culminates a month of fasting where in the faithful have spent their time praying and beseeching God for forgiveness and mercy. In our country , Eid is also commenly known as Hari Raya Aidilfitri or Hari Raya Puasa. Hari Raya literally means Day of Celebration. Muslims in Malaysia celebrate Eid like other Muslims throughout the world.It is the biggest holiday in Malaysia and is the most awaited one .Many banks ,government and private offices will be close on this day, which at many time lasts until a week.

Same like my hometown at Ipoh , the night before Eid will be filled with the takbir which is held in the mosques or musollas.In many parts at Ipoh ,oil lamps or pelita will be lit up in house compounds.Many children playing fireworks and they looks so happy.

First day of Syawal we went to our grandparents home at Batu Gajah and all of our relatives would be there.So , from there we will get to know each other especially our sibling (including me).But some of them would not able to come because those years were not their turn to return but their spouse hometown.We wear traditional Malay costumes on the Eid.The dress for men is called Baju Melayu which is worn together with songket while the women’s are known as baju kurung and baju kebaya . Special dishes like ketupat a type of rice cake , lemang and other Malay delicacies are served during that day .

Once the prayer is completed , we visit grandmother , uncle and anty’s grave .During this visit , we clean the grave , perform the recital of the Ya-Seen .I hope that they will blessed by Allah and they are spared from the punishment in the afterlife . After that when we went back to grandparent’s home , we seek forgiveness from each others forgetting past sins and renewing our relationship with others . The most common greeting is “Maaf Zahir dan Batin” and simply meaning “I seek forgiveness from my heart and soul".

The rest of the day we spent visiting relatives and serving visitors. Eidul-Fitr is a very joyous day for children for this is the day were adults are extra generous.Children will be given token sums of money,also known as ‘duit raya’ from their parents or elders .So,my parent give duit raya to each children. I also get a lot of duit raya from my parent,aunty,auncle and my grandfather.

At night ,the village will be filled with oil lamps and many children play fireworks.I think children will feel the celebration of Eid when they get duit raya and able to play fireworks.That why they look so happy when play fireworks.Although holiday is too short , but I thankful to God because still give me opportunity to celebrate first syawal together my family.

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Every our journey must have obstacle infront of us...

So take it easy with more affort & believe to our God....

My Family is everything...

You are the sun to me....Because you brighten my day...You are the moon to me....Because you light my way...You are the sea to me..Because your love is endless...You are a map to me....Because you brought me to happiness...You are a book to me...Because we are the story...You are a tree to me..Because you support me fully...You are keys to me...Because you set me free...You are air to me...Because you surround and hold me...You are a glove to me...Because you fit me like one...You are the earth to me...Because you are my foundation...You are water to me...